Category: everyday life

Mother’s Day Weekend

It was the busiest Mother’s Day weekend I ever had, and I worried that it would be too hectic, but it was great! On Saturday, Nadia and I went to the CSO matinee concert “for big kids.”

It was great as always. The concert was called “The Sound Waves,” and all the pieces that were performed had something to do with water and its symbolism. The program included music by Saint-Saens, Wagner, Sibelius, Tchaikovsky, and Mendelssohn, and at the end, the orchestra played Stravinsky’s Suite from The Firebird.

After the concert, there was a kid-friendly reception at Forte. Anna was skeptical about how “kids-friendly” it was going to be, but it was amazing! They had both adult’s and kids’ food (even peanut butter/jelly sandwiches :)) and lots of fruits and vegetables.

Then, we all went to Milwaukee because Nadia had a recital later the same day. That was the part I was unsure about: obviously, we didn’t plan on the concert and recital on the same day! However, everything went perfectly, Nadia was the first to perform at the recital, and she did great. Anna accompanied her, which was especially enjoyable.

In the evening, we had one more adventure. Somehow, we all missed the news about the Northern Lights (and even if we knew, there was no time to go anywhere after the Field Museum Night). Then, we became jealous of all the people posting amazing photos, and since there were more chances for the Northern Lights to reappear the next night, Anna suggested we go away from the city lights pollution and try to catch them.

We didn’t get a chance to see them; as it turned out, they appeared after 11:30PM, and we left at about 10:30, but we didn’t regret that we went on this adventure. I can’t recall when was the last time I saw a clear night sky away from the city. All the constellations, and the Milky Way, and a shiny half-moon – everything was up there above us! The parking lot of the forest preserve was full of cars: many people had an idea similar to ours. We asked for the way to the beach and followed the stone steps down to the lake. We stood there together with other people, staring into the sky. Then, we saw the lights of the police car. We were sure they would kick us out: the park closing time was 10 PM, but the officer got out of the car, approached us, and asked sympathetically: nothing yet?

He said that the night before, there was a huge crowd at the beach, but the police didn’t kick the people out: it’s a once-in-a-lifetime event; how could we! We were just making sure everybody’s fine.

We stayed there for a little bit longer, but since we were unsure whether anything was going to happen, we left. It was still amazing :).

Then, there was an actual Mother’s Day, and Anna cooked the most delicious breakfast (and I didn’t take pictures!), and then I went back to Chicago. The weather was gorgeous, I could actually go to the beach, but I decided in favor of biking – I didn’t have a chance to go biking for several days. Then I went to see my mom, and there was a little bit of disaster, but that’s a separate story. The most important thing is that my Mother’s Day was amazing, and I also got a new Dunes t-shirt from Igor and also my friend mailed me this very special gift:

Biking Along The Lake

Last Sunday – my first long bike ride of the new season!

Jury Duty

It had to be now! After I was done with the conference and started to feel like a human, after I went to New York and was diverted to Milwaukee, after all of that, I received a jury duty summons! And then it went according to the worst-case scenario: I called a day before with the hope that I wouldn’t need to report, and I learned that I had to show up at the court (and it was Maywood!!! I couldn’t believe it was in Cook County!). I went to the court on Monday (almost two hours one way), sat there for an hour and a half, and ended up in a group that was asked to come upstairs to a courtroom. The judge briefly explained the case to us, and then we were divided into three groups. Each group was questioned by the judge, the prosecution, and the defendant’s attorneys. After all that, I was among the selected fourteen (with two alternates). Then came the worst part: because we started so late, we could not finish in one day, even though the case was not very complicated. We were ordered to come back on Tuesday! Fortunately, the hearing was scheduled for 11:30, so I attended the office first and participated in two meetings. And then, since it was already past rush hour, I took Uber to the court, which ended up being 20 minutes instead of almost an hour. 

Despite my laments about wasted time, I am glad I served. It was a very interesting experience, and I learned a lot about how our judicial system functions. I had no idea how the judge’s selection process works, so it was very interesting to observe what questions were asked by each of the parties. 

The most interesting, however, was to observe how much the process was similar to what they show in court dramas! During the first day of hearings, I frequently caught myself thinking: that must be a show! It can’t be a reality! But it was!

The way attorneys delivered their remarks, intonating to influence people’s feelings, the row of witnesses looking stereotypical beyond reason, and the intrigue of the sequence of events that started to unfold. 

We reached the unanimous verdict of “not guilty” in the first ten minutes, and to be honest, we didn’t even have to do this deliberation – the first vote proved that we had one opinion. We still talked a bit, mostly ensuring we reached this conclusion based on the same facts. When, in ten minutes, we knocked at the door and said that we had reached the verdict, the deputy sheriff was alarmed and almost creamed that she needed time to gather people back into the courtroom. However, we acted exactly as instructed, there was not enough evidence, and the prosecutors failed to prove anything.

Possibly more to come 🙂

For My Russian-Speaking Friends Only…

…since no Google Translate will ever be able to decode this.

Email subject: Fwd: О прекращении сотрудничества, в связи с получением уведомлений об отказе в выдаче заключения в целях заключения образовательной организацией договора по вопросам образования с иностранными организациями (или иностранными гражданами)

What it was: an email to the University faculty informing about the termination of all collaboration with foreign educational institutions… (don’t even try to translate!)

That’s My Way!

After The Conference

It has been four days since the conference. After a complete relaxation on Saturday, I started to return back to reality, which included going through three hundred non-work emails and dozens of work requests.

A huge portion of my non-work emails was Postgres-related, conferences-related, or otherwise not-really-personal. I am still not through all of them, although I hope that I didn’t miss anything really urgent. Here is what I’ve done so far:

  • Posted the questions for PG Day Chicago feedback
  • Discussed “lessons learned” from the conference day with other organizers
  • Collected feedback from room hosts
  • Emailed several people with whom I talked at the conference and promised to email
  • Scheduled May meetup
  • Published a blog about PG Day Chicago
  • Checked all bills that have accumulated during the past two weeks
  • Paid everything that was due 🙂
  • Emailed the dates when I can volunteer at the Night Ministry
  • Decided on the dates when I can do several shows I want to attend in May and June
  • Figured out most of my May-June schedule
  • Ordered a new dishwasher

The things I still didn’t do and need to do in the next couple of days:

  • Schedule the rest of the conversations I’ve promised to schedule
  • Record a sample video for an online conference where I will present in June
  • Prepare the actual presentation for this conference
  • Submit proposals to three conferences which will be happening this fall and which I want to attend
  • Write two professional blog posts
  • Write a LinkedIn recommendation I’ve promised
  • Find time to meet with three more people with whom I want to meet

Plus, lots of biking (the sunrise is finally early enough!), lots of shows to see, and the full Chicago summer ahead!

Bike Repair

I planned to take my bike for maintenance when Boris was in town even before I got a flat tire last Sunday, and then I had to take care of both. On Saturday, I called the bike shop to check that they were open and started walking in their direction. It would take about 20 minutes because I couldn’t walk fast when I was walking my bike along, and I dreaded the situation. But just when I exited the alley and turned to Jarvis Square, I saw a Curbside Bicycles pop-up – it was so timely, I couldn’t believe I was so lucky!

The repair person said she could change the inner tube, but she kept looking down at my bike and asked: is it all you want to do? I admitted that I needed a full checkup, and I had concerns about the chain as it started to fall off too often. She measured it and said – yes, you need a chain replacement and probably a cassette replacement as well. It was 10-30, and I said that I needed to go somewhere at 3, so she said she would be done by then.

She texted me at 2-30, and I went down to pick up the bike. She gave me a complete description of what she noticed and what she had done, and that the brakes would still be noisy, but there was no technical concern there. She described the thorn she pulled out of my back wheel and how it almost looked like a nail!

The time saving and the level of service were not even close to what I would get otherwise, so I consider this business competition to be won by Curbside Bicycles!

And Now There Are Three

My newest orchid

Five Days Before TheConference

My two colleagues (one remote from Texas and one from our London office) arrived in Chicago on Saturday night, and I spent the whole Sunday showing them Chicago my way. We started with the Architectural Cruise, and then I showed Millennium Park, the Chicago Cultural Center, The Art Institute, Chagall’s mosaic, and the first skyscrapers. We made it around the Loop on the Pink Line and went back to see the Chicago Public Library and the Fine Arts Building.

I left behind several old skyscrapers, Picasso, and the Riverwalk, but it’s only that much you can fit in one day. I mean, I could feet more, but I’m afraid the guests reached their Chicago capacity limit:)

Boris arrived last night, and he only told me a day earlier that he had been sick for that whole week. Now he has no voice at all, so I it looks like I will have to find another room host!

The WBEZ Chicago Showdown Champion

I voted for this Chicago Icon in all rounds!